[acekaze]

I have a cousin who can be considered way out of the box, People are weird, thats a fact, i am weird, you are all weirdos but theres limits to how weird someone can reach, heres my problem with my cousin, he was always a guy who dealed bad with being alone, always searched for girlfriends, hes 24, and over the past 8 years he had at least 10 diferent girlfriends,not couting with the ones that rejected him all of them in online relations, 2 of them he actually went to them in real life.

Heres my problem, i am not against online relations, not by any means, i am just against calling a relation something you have with someone you just meet 1 week ago, the past year he has been pretty quiet, but 2 months ago he started searching girls again, and he alredy had 2 diferent gfs in past 2 months, and i seriosly cant hear him talk of another girl and how she is the love of his live, or how he wants to go meet her I feel like slapping him to live, but i am tired of trying to do that, and have my advices ignored, what would you do in my situation?

(If your wondering why it bothers me, it bothers me because i am actually close to my cousin, then when we go out, he doesnt shut up about the girls, then when they dump him he comes cry to me, and gets "glued" ending up to bother me alot)

[UnknownFact2]

You need to be wise.

He'll then notice the difference between being wise and being STUPID so he'll take your advices more into consideration.

If he sees your wisdom and still refuses to consider your advices, give them more thought or whatever, then he's hopeless and you should move on.

[gordo437]

hmmmmm you should tell him that his over reliance on a relationships makes u sick and you couldnt careless about it? then be like ..... anyway talking about something we both care about. that or just constantly interupt him when he talks and try to make the topic about u so he gets bored and doesnt mention it anymore

[ZEE]

fuck him
make him your bitch
then he wont cry to you about being dumped
and he wont be lonely
win/win

[ComradeHX]

Originally Posted by ZEE

fuck him
make him your bitch
then he wont cry to you about being dumped
and he wont be lonely
win/win

This is not Southern U.S.

Or is it?

[ZEE]

Originally Posted by ComradeHX

This is not Southern U.S.

Or is it?

>implying incest only happens in america
HA
>implying americans are smart enough to use a pc
HAHA
>implying fat americans would not be too lazy to type
HAHAHAHAHA


U FUNNY DUDE

[acekaze]

No its not america rofl Zee your pretty freaky XD even more than my cousin, scared of you, being wise with my cousin is worthless, been there and done that, he says all the time he understand, 1 week later same mistakes. Only really brought it up because last week he broke with a girl he started a relation 1 month before, now hes starting all over again with other girl

[Exia]

Say to him your not his consolidation tool.

EMPHASIS on not being a tool dude, use it.

"A small mind is easily filled with faith"

40k quote to make it look cool.

[sozen]

Its obvious the problem here is you. Your not supporting your cousin when he is in a very, very, frail emotional state. Truthfully speaking his "relationships" you say; are him just looking to be consoled. He is having all these anonymous relations because he can act out a false life which in his mind is better than the one he has. In turn this causes his real life to degrade because he cant see the simple things he has in life. I doubt any relationships he has now will never take fruition in the real life because as proven with the others he has met then never hold. That is because of his false identity he is putting out. I suggest that you and him sit down on day and you love him tenderly. That is all he needs who knows maybe both of you will realize your love for each other. Also most true love relationships start off with a hatred of one attribute. In this case you hate his scandalous ways, but in fact you secretly love it. Too long did not read, this was a story about how my life got turned upside down.

[acekaze]

Sozen your absolutly right when you say i dont support correctly and he searches anonymous girls help, that has a reason tough, its because i also been there, sitted had the "chat" stood with him for a long while, been as supportive as possible, to a couple months later same situation hapenning, about the fact that i love it, nep, not even close, its anoying because maybe at 1 times it had its charm, but when it starts messing with my own life, its not fun anymore, also for other people who sugested i was more rought with him, its not that easy, know him and hang out with him for more than 10 years now, he may be my cousin, but its more like a brother to me.