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Originally Posted by chococya96
and the question is does your society accepts your hobby of these? like from family members, friends, colleagues, co-workers, strangers etc??
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Pretty much, no.
I think my co-workers know I watch "Japanese cartoons". One girl is slightly more enlightened as she was looking over my shoulder as I was watching a recent episode of
Another during the... um... umbrella moment. She was quite shocked, I wonder if before she imagined I was watching a slanty-eyed version of Road runner or somesuch?!
I think animé suffers from the Japanese having a different mindset, so a lot of stuff that is fairly normal in animé can come across as rather pervy to somebody only prepared to give it a cursory examination. Not to mention that animated material spans age ranges from stuff aimed firmly at tots right up to stuff that might be too heavy for sensitive teenagers. Plus one thing I have noticed is that death is often dealt with full on, in a manner that would be jarring to a westerner for death is often a silent private thing in western media unless it is the butt of the joke (most post-modern zombie films, for instance). Even in horror films, the body count is so high that cheerleaders being mowed down by a chainsaw is some screaming, some splashing blood, and more screaming by other people. It's a little hard to take seriously.
Then there's the school uniform. You know the one. Everybody knows the one. It's the one that has "wannabe paedo" written all over it. Because why the hell would a thirty-something year old male watch something with lots of girls in school uniform? Let us not forget that in places where uniforms are normal, they turn up a lot on television - the early Harry Potter films, any teenager in Neighbours, for example. But no, animé is something else entirely. Especially when one prude sees one "panty shot".
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it is very childish and unethical to have this kind of hobby.
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For a long time in the UK there was a problem with the ratings of animé. A lot of people associate "cartoons" and "children". This does not prepare them for what to do when confronted with, say, Genocyber.
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they will ridicule me for having "bad" hobbies.
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I live in France, so my reply is "
tu regarde le football, moi je regarde ce; si il est un problème, franchement, casse-toi pauvre con...".
For those who don't speak French, this means "you watch football, I watch this; if there's a problem, frankly, f*ck you asshole".
[the "casse-toi pauvre con", I must point out, was an expression taught to me by Mr. Sarkozy, Monsieur Le President!

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I'm a geek and proud of it. When I go home from work and it's not an animé night, I fire up my compiler. ARM is my speciality. Not for work, for fun. Other people listen to rap. Others make out. Some hit the pubs and blow too much of their pay on destroying their livers. Everybody is different, it's rather comic how some things are "cool" and some things are "sad"; though to be honest I think the majority are sheep and only follow into this cool/sad distinction because everybody else does. I'm way past giving a shit.
Repeat after me:
Casse-toi pauvre con.
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even if it doesn't hinders your social life
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I don't have a social life. Things are very
uncomplicated. If people wish to insult me behind my back, that's their perogative. I have much more respect for those who insult me to my face, but few people do as they might have to defend their ill informed opinions.
But I live in hope. I have episode one of "Elfen Lied" on my phone, just in case somebody is brave enough to accuse me of watching kid's stuff. I'll hand them the phone and see how much they get through before the penny drops.
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I mean, there are millions of other hobbies which some of them are really gay/worse though,
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You're in danger of destroying your own argument here. There are a myriad of hobbies, not all of which are accepted by the mainstream. Leave it at that.
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Sure you can just say "Oh who cares about it... its our hobbies anyway... why the fuck we should care about others thinking??"
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That's exactly what I do say and think.
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but hey, we're living in a world where it is inevitable to escape from socializing with others unless you lock yourself in an basement.
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There are degrees of socialising. I don't go to parties or out to bars with co-workers. I just don't find I derive any pleasure from such events. But I take break with them, I work with them.
I am quite happy to run my life to my own schedule. If they don't like it, say it with me...
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They would immediately say "Oh isn't that hentai??",
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I would be SO proud if ANY of them knew a word like "hentai". Or in fact any Japanese word that wasn't a make of car or appliance...
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you will get the "looks" from everyone, as if your an outcast...
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Yeah. Stopped caring about that when I was, like, ten.
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- Is being obessed with anime good or bad??
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Some people are obsessed with football. Some with cricket. Some with rugby. Some with Kerry Katona. Some with making money, some with making out. I reckon the word obsession is frequently misused. I don't enjoy my cute panty-flashing schoolgirls

to the detriment of my life. I don't receive my pay and hit Amazon for the latest DVD box sets before the bills have been seen to. Nor do I refuse to talk to somebody because such-and-such is on, or wet myself because that movie adaption went on and on and on and I couldn't handle pausing...
No. I
like animé. In its way it's a form of escapism no more or less than the things western TV offers up, from Avatar and Stargate to New Girl and Firefly. These are all things we watch to distract us from the shit that passes for reality. My liking of animé is because it is where I've learned to come for a decent story that won't patronise me. Sure, not all animé falls into that category, but I don't watch all animé.

Consider "Time of Eve" (if you haven't seen this, do so asap!). Once you have, and once you've had time to discuss the many points raised with somebody else, ask yourself if it would work as well as live action. Ask if Hollywood could remake it (either live action or a pixar thing) without missing the point and utterly breaking it. Some stuff just works well in animated/drawn form. If enjoying this makes me a sad sack, so be it. I could care less.
Oh dear. Long reply. I'll stop here too.
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