[Xtrem]

help me out here , where can i see when this is coming out, i failed at googling

[demx]

If you just want to see the release dates of the Blu-ray and DVDs you can check it out here [Only registered and activated users can see links. ]

If you are looking for a store to purchase them, I'll have to look a little harder for you.

EDIT: There we go
[Only registered and activated users can see links. ]

That place is selling and taking pre-orders

[Krow]

The first box shipped out on June 22, according to [Only registered and activated users can see links. ].

I believe Kira-Fansub is planning on doing the Blurays for Softenni too, if you're waiting for the downloads.